A couple of days ago Kris Worsci posted that Rhabdophobia was -

fear of being severely punished or beaten by a rod, or of being severely criticized. This phobia also refers to a fear of magic, or more specifically the fear of the magic wand.

Rhabdophilia is, then, the love of being beaten by a rod, as well as the love of magic.

I knew it! I knew that my obsession with Harry Potter (and magicians in general) was just another side of my spanking kink!