The Spanking Writers

If your reading list of spanking blogs needs paddling up a little, you may be pleased to hear about a few blogs I’ve discovered recently, all by people I’ve already encountered online. As we’ve mentioned before, Abel and I both owe a lot in our spanking development to the soc.sexuality.spanking newsgroup. The bloggers I’ve discovered are current or former posters there, whose writing I’ve enjoyed.

Radspace belongs to Radagast, who says this about his kink:

Being a disciplinarian is what I enjoy the most. When I got into the scene, I knew I liked spanking in a general way but was not quite sure about the specifics of what turned me on. I tried lots of different approaches and even dabbled in the larger BDSM thing for a bit but found that I almost always fantasized about spanking as punishment. Even if I’m playing with a person in a casual and friendly way, I use a disciplinary scenario in my own head to keep me focused on what I am doing and to add to my enjoyment.

This Cat Is Crazy is the blog of Rad’s girlfriend wife Cassy Park. One of the recent posts of hers I’ve enjoyed hilariously - and to the point - tells off people who don’t know how to behave at spanking parties:

A compliment is one thing and is always appreciated. Gawking at the same woman and telling her over and over and over how lovely she looks gets creepy.

Rubbing after a spanking is usually fine. Offering to rub someone after she’s just played with someone else is very strange. Commenting on a girl’s butt, and pointing out the unique characteristics of said butt, is beyond disturbing. …

Being shy is one thing. Sitting at a table alone, not talking to anyone, and staring at other people — sometimes with what looks like a glare on your face — is scary.

Shiny Stuff is the blogging home of Mr Shiny, the author of some of the most loopy, funny spanking stories you’ll ever read, many of which are show-cased on his blog. (To give you an idea: one of the story descriptions indexes it as F/Elf). I’m particularly fond of his writing, because at one point he wrote me a snippet of fantasy wherein I was spanked by Mal Reynolds. *swoon* Like many bloggers this week, Shiny is still brimming with Shadow Lane impressions:

The interesting thing this week has been talking to a couple of friends who know about my kink, knew where I went on vacation, and were brimming with polite interest/sick fascination. I think they were both expecting tales of an orgy and were a little bit disappointed in my description of suite parties, events, etc.  One of them couldn’t fathom that there weren’t folks running around in leather and nipple-clamps. Maybe it’s because Kinky Stuff gets all wrapped up into one big bundle in peoples’ minds - i.e. they know it’s a sexual fetish and therefore any party of spankos must involve sex all over the place.  So now they’re better educated and/or they think I’m lying and are picturing me running around a hotel wearing leather and nipple-clamps.

My reading list is richer for having these blogs on it; hope you enjoy knowing them as well.