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A funny spanking reference has popped up on my news reader. In an interview, a Bollywood actor called Purab Kohli was shared one of the important influences in his career:
Your ability to get people in your audience to open up to you is pretty astounding. What do you attribute that to?
…I attribute Koel Puri for spanking my butt in Rock On. That’s what got the beautiful girls all over the world to open up in front of me (laughs).
This must be it! Beautiful girls trust a man who understands their pain and troubles. *g*
P.S. (The whole interview is here, but be careful, the page starts playing music automatically.)
Alexa Jayne
April 28th, 2009 at 3:45 am
I read this post this morning, and then carried on with my day, my interest in Bollywood actors being minimal at best and the spanking *of* young lads being only slightly more. But the title kept coming back to me.
Spanking encourages trust.
At first I thought it was backwards. Shouldn’t it be “Trust encourages spanking”, I said to myself? In the sense that permitting someone to spank me, in RL or even virtually, would be a huge act of trust? Hell, even posting here is a huge act of trust!
Then, I toyed with the idea that it was the right way around. The intimacy — going into the dark with someone safe — would *generate* trust, wouldn’t it? I think it would.
The truth is that I don’t actually know, and I’m struggling a bit just now. Coming out to myself as a spanko is one thing. Figuring out (whether there is) a next step is another.
Christianna
April 28th, 2009 at 4:22 am
Hey Alexa Jayne, I think it works both ways. Spanking between myself and J increases my trust in him, but I also trusted him enough to give me the kind of spanking I needed, the first time and every time. So perhaps it is a bit of both.