About Abel

For adults only

“The Spanking Writers” is one of the web’s most popular literary spanking sites. It combines my blog – to which I posted every other day from March 2006 to December 2014 – with “Abel’s Spanking Stories”, a free site that launched on 7th June 1999. I also maintain a deliciously naughty (and decidedly NSFW) Tumblr site.

(In its early days, this blog was co-written by my then wife Haron, but for its last few years was a solo effort!)

I’m a feedback whore: I love reading comments and emails from readers. Please do let me know if you enjoy the stuff I produce.


Reality vs. Fantasy

I don’t approve of abusive behaviour or of activities involving those not of legal age. I do approve of adults fantasising about their sexuality, and enjoying safe kinky play to which all parties consent. Informed, consensual non-consent is great; it should go without saying that I abhor actual abuse.


Real-life play and friendship

“You stand in front of me in your school uniform, nervously, unable to meet my eyes. You can’t quite believe that you’re here in the Headmaster’s study; that you’ve been caught. You’ve tried to explain, but to no avail. You’ve listened with dread as I’ve explained that girls who break the rules need to be punished, knowing what that must mean. I open the cupboard and take out a cane.”

If that appeals, then it would be great to chat more, as I love discussing all things spanking with like-minded folks. So whether you’re plucking up the courage to be spanked for the first time; need greater discipline in your life; or are experienced in the scene… if the thought of receiving the cane, tawse or belt sends scary (yet excited?) shivers down your spine…. it’d be great to hear from you.

In my vanilla life, I’m a successful professional, running my own business and living in London (although I travel pretty extensively within the UK, continental Europe and US). I have a wonderful fiancee, Emma Jane, so I’m not looking for romance. Nor, these days, do we play 1:1 with friends without the other being around – at a party, say, or if we have friends over. But on the right occasion and with the right people, we are then open in terms of corporal punishment and sexually – and so we’re always interested in meeting new folks who enjoy this thing that we do.

Nothing works without mutual trust, rapport, chemistry and discretion. Email? Coffee? It’d be lovely to chat and see if we connect. You can reach me via abel1234 @ hotmail.com .

5 thoughts on “About Abel

  • 6 April, 2012 at 10:13 am

    Dear Abel,
    I’ve a long-term fan, dating way back to alt.sex.stories.spanking, or whatever its exact name was.
    Now, I’ve just created a blog for my own writing. You, and a kinky librarian, are my first links, out of fanhood and appreciation.
    But I’m hoping you might include my site in your links. That is, if you have a look at http://jerusalemmortimer.com and like what you read.
    The stories are mostly true, more or less, and tend to be about what the people involved were thinking, as realistically as possible. I love schoolgirl fantasy, etc, as much as you obviously do, but I’m no good at writing them. I write what I can write.
    So if you can recommend the blog, please do.
    At the moment I have one or two readers in all the world, so it’d be nice to find some more.

    Jaime (Jerusalem Mortimer)

  • 8 July, 2012 at 6:11 pm

    Dear Abel,

    I wanted to let you know that your site has certainly aroused my interest and I am enjoying perusing it! I included it in my own blog roll–always a pleasure to stumble upon a gold mine of fantasy.
    I have been blogging in my vanilla world for two years in order to hone my skills as a writer, find my voice, and exercise the writing muscle. I started my spanking/domestic discipline blog in June, as I have finally learned–write what you know. Many of the stories are fantasy, but most are based on what I have experienced. Anna Gray, my latest entry has caused some eyebrows to be raised and my sanity has been called into question! I failed to make it clear that the two were adults role playing. Abel, role playing can be intense and my loving disciplinarian in real life don’t generally “write a script” before hand; we just sort of go with a fantasy and it can get rather intense. We love the Daddy/daughter roles and use a lot of variations of it.
    Anna Gray was written strictly as a D/d fantasy, but I have begun a book based on a damaged girl who does get out, but no one lives happily ever after and lives at the sea shore. Sometimes survival and wisdom are all one gets out of this life and that is what Anna leaves with.
    Abel, I don’t know where this girl in my head came from, but I gave her life a few days ago and I need a mentor, a guide. She troubled me and I can’t stop thinking about her. She is damaged and I can’t help but like her. I cannot leave her like this–I want to see what happens to her.
    It seems strange to ask if I can be added to your site links, but I must start somewhere.
    I will always blog whether it’s fantasy or a reflection on my sexually submissive journey and I am eager for an audience.
    Thank you for your time.

  • 9 July, 2012 at 12:56 am

    Abel, I changed the name of my character to Irish Grace; I was informed “Anna” and “Gray” was too closely associated with The 50 Shades book, which I have not actually read.

    Again, thank you for you time.

  • 18 January, 2015 at 3:47 pm

    I love you writing and make visits from time to time to a master who gives me up to 42 strokes usually on the bare in a reasonably strict manner as I leave the severity up to him. I count the strokes and end up with swollen ridges which are very satisfying. However he does not apply the school situation as much as I would like to expect. I dress in various guises and it a radio on job in case the neighbours hear the whacks. I would love sometime to hear from those who can give the school cane and tawse in an un impeded manner and make me cry out the the stroke numbers with mistakes rewarded by more of the cane. Kres@post.com


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