And on, in our round-up of enjoyable and thought-provoking posts from the past year, to our love friend Indy, entitled “Age of Innocence”.
In my twenties, I’d wondered idly if I’d ever be able to confide my spanking desires to anyone, even a sexual a partner. Now, two decades later, my desires were no longer a source of embarrassment and isolation; rather, they were now an entree to a new and exciting community. Just by walking in the room, I’d shared perhaps my deepest secret with everyone in the group, and I’d been warmly accepted not in spite of it, but because of it.
… The spanking scene was a godsend. There was nothing at all abnormal about a woman coming out as a spanko at my age. This was my chance to gain experience with the lighthearted flirting, banter, and play that accompany the spanking scene, without having to face most of my insecurities about sexual relationships. I gained a great deal of confidence from my first year in the scene; I’d found plenty of people I enjoyed playing with, and I’d become much less conscious about my body.
The subsequent discussion of sexuality is open, powerful, frank – and moving, too. We’re proud to include it in our selection here.